Wholeness theory, What do you think?

topic posted Thu, April 17, 2008 - 9:51 PM by  Aschleigh
So I was thinking, Why am I so desperate to have a good working relationship with everyone I love, and to have everyone I love be whole within themselves?
I remember someone saying that each person I love is a piece of me, a reflection of who I am.
Put those two together , and I want to be whole. I want all the pieces to come together in the puzzle.
I want all my connections to be strong and real. I want to see wholeness in each person I love, each person who reflects some part of me back to me.
I want the whole puzzle to come together. The puzzle being wholeness itself, but the wholeness me is a puzzle to ( within the larger puzzle)
My grandma is sick and dying. She is also a hurt, broken women. I am going to be losing this piece of me soon. It pains me that this women, a 4th of my DNA will never have the chance to become whole. She never will heal from her wounds in this life at least. She is a part of me. And each piece needs to be whole.
What do you think?
posted by:
Aschleigh
Los Angeles
  • Re: Wholeness theory, What do you think?

    Thu, May 15, 2008 - 6:50 PM
    the only thing not "whole" is the perception of separateness that the ego generates, if the question is how to make the ego feel not separate or whole, I would say that this is something that you have to find out for yourself, and your self alone, your grandma is part of the cosmic consciousness/love that this whole universe is a reflection of, as are you and your ego, nothing is really separate nor can it be, we simply have that perception. How to "feel" whole, for our ego's sake, thats the big question, and there are countless spiritual paths, practices and teachers. My spiritual path works (if I work it).

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